Our thoughts are interwoven with the relationships that we belong to. It might take a day to establish a cherishable bond or that even decades of togetherness might not suffice. Relationships link our hearts and minds together, and at every step a choice is made between the two ruling entities. As humans, we learn to adapt and survive to the environment that we belong to & it clearly reflects on the choices that we make while choosing our friends, partners, colleagues etc. Our current mind state affects the health of our relations directly and everyone will agree to the agitation while replying to a text when out-of-mood or the impulsive "lets-meet-up-right-now" without considering your friends situation or even ignoring calls when bored. Its easy to wriggle around in a comfortable long friendship with moody, late or even rude replies; but as the level is stepped-up, even an abrupt conversation-ender can kill a symbiotic acquaintance. Relationships should be taken seriously. They affect our mental health in ways we cannot imagine.
Taking a look deeper, women are said to be more receptive to certain situations than men, and its not unknown that women have a higher emotional quotient. They care... at least most do. And about a lot of things. the way they look, feel, perceive all goes into the little log book permanently hard-coded in their heads. They talk too, to their kind and weigh the pros-cons of almost all the possible situations. And its not easy to care and not get the same back. Its like baking a cake, but eating only the crust. A bond should be nourished if you have consciously chosen to be a part of it. Even a simple friendship should be handled delicately in tough situations lest it breaks. A lot depends on the people involved of course. However, being aware of the weak links in a bond and treading softly on matters pertaining to them can do u more good than harm. How much does it take to send that extra smiley face ? Or that "how are you" ? If this sounds sappy/gay to you.. then quit reading this article right now. This is not for the casual, useless fuckers who think they own the world. Reach out to your innermost voice and ask yourself.. How does it really feel to be treated like a 2nd grade citizen ? Do you like being brushed off or ignored ? Will you enjoy texting continuously and never getting replied to ? Really.. how in fuck's name did u assume that the other person has absolutely no self-esteem and will tag along with your nonsense forever ?? Are you that stupid ? Respect the effort people put in to keep the most basic conversation alive. It takes efforts sweety, to send that first message.. or suggest an outing. And you are important to that person. if you don't realize that, try approaching someone with the intent of building that forever-long friendship. I wouldn't say it hurts, but it does sting you, maybe for a second, but then thoughts race in your mind competing with dark negativity. Maybe he/she dint like what i said, I'm trying too hard, am i over sensitive? have i lost it?? is he/she the same with everyone ??? Its takes a major toll on their self-esteem and inner-strength. Such thoughts and kill a persons happiness. And you useless fuckers are responsible for it. 
It's crazy how people seemed to have "moved-on" and gotten busy with their "lives". At any point, everyone needs a friend. Someone. If its not you its someone else. But in no way are they cutting down on the fun. And picking up that hint is extremely important for keeping that smile plastered on your face. There's no easy way to get over someone. No magic there sweety. Its just a test of your individuality, confidence and how much you love yourself !! Kareena Kapoor's famous statement "Main apni favourite hoon" is seriously gold-dust. Love your self as much as you can cause you wont break up with yourself (bitch please). There is no point being that friend who will be taken for granted. Available 24/7. Always ready for any plan. Never refusing. And overtly sweet. Really you are pleasing nobody. You are simply planting a seed for bad-taken-for-granted behaviour. Don't let yourself be treated in a way that you will never treat others. Demand the respect that you deserve/require. And don't talk this out.. let your actions/behaviour speak. Time and again I've learnt that maintaining a relationship with yourself should be top priority. That guarantees 50% less pain during a heart break. Love yourself. your thoughts. your dreams. everything. enjoy the solitude. At times having a coffee all by yourself floods in happy thoughts. If you are your own pillar of strength, no gush of "raging" wind can knock you down.
Realizing that you are being mis-treated is essential. And for that you should always be consciously aware of all your actions pertaining to that relationship. i always believe in keeping myself happy first and then others. you are not obliged to converse with anyone, its your choice,, always. SO don't be rude unnecessarily (fuckers,, its really not cool). The other person might be hyper-sensitive and cause more damage than u intended. And c'mon peeps who doesn't like to be treated like the golden goose ? So treat others the way you want them to treat you. Show them the love. The affection. Don't hold-back anything.......not love, not hate.